You deserve
to feel heard,
valued & supported

Nicole Bosky is a certified Somatic Experiencing®
Therapist and Authentic Relating Facilitator. Every day ,
she helps mission-led leaders create meaningful
impact without abandoning themselves.

I'm ready to take up space

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The Boundary Quiz:

Are you leading…
or people pleasing?

Discover your people-pleasing archetype and how
much energy it may be quietly costing you, and your mission

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Women now hold 63% of executive roles in sustainability-related fields, but 60% in leadership roles report burnout risk due to a tendency to self-sacrifice themselves for their relationships or larger mission in ‘service of life’.

But a regenerative future cannot be built on exhausted leadership. A woman depleted from self-sacrifice is not just a personal loss; it is a
loss to the world she is trying to serve.

The world needs you,
energised

If you are ready to:

  • Transform the ‘too much’ story into ‘I Matter.’

  • Recognise that your needs and instincts matter
    as much as the mission you serve

  • Stop self-sacrificing as a form of self-sabotage

  • Trust your nature

So that you can:

  • Liberate energy and creativity, your life and work deserve

  • Say no clearly, gracefully, and with respect

  • Take ownership of your time, energy, and priorities

  • Live unapologetically

Then you are in the right place

How I define Trusting Your Nature:

A woman who trusts her nature feels safe to ask for what she needs

She knows she has a lot to bring to the table and chooses not to exhaust herself while tending to everyone else’s needs before her own.

She prioritises her mental health and attunes to her nervous system, taking the time to ground herself before saying ‘yes’ to important decisions or committing to new responsibilities.

She’s unapologetic about her needs, acknowledges her capacity, and feels confident making requests for support, also inviting others to step into shared responsibility.

She feels worthy and deserving of being met in her relationships and her work, and is happy to walk away from anything or anyone who can’t meet her with clarity and self-respect.

I'm ready to ask for what I need

  • I am so grateful to you Nicole for what you do, every woman should experience this type of work.

    Beata, Head of HR

  • Working with Nicole has been a game changer for me, after a whole lifetime I am slowly starting to feel like I’m on my own team

    Ellie, Behavioural Scientist

  • I now can make my own choices regardless of the choices or others' expectations of me.

    Alex, UNDP consultant

  • I’m finding my own way, and speaking to myself more kindly, supportively, and lovingly. A new voice has been created that fights back the voice that historically was unkind & aggressive

    Sofia, Regenerative Consultant

  • I feel grateful to have access to a different language. The language of the body and its subtlety. I feel I am heard, but by myself, and that I can hold myself when I need to be held.

    Solomiya, Product Manager

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Your empowerment catalyst, mentor & coach

Hi, I’m Nicole

8 years ago, after a global project with the United Nations, I found myself constantly exhausted, stuck in cycles of fear, doubt, anxiety, and self-criticism, and felt totally out of control of my life. I burned myself out from overextending.

Now I help female regenerative leaders transform their nervous system patterning from self-sacrifice into empowered sovereignty. Supporting you to be in choice about what you say ‘yes’ to, so you have more energy to offer your purpose in the service of life.

As a certified Somatic Experiencing® Therapist, IFS Informed Therapist, and L4 Authentic Relating Facilitator in training with ART International. I weave these disciplines together to equip you with tools to attune to your nervous system needs, learn what safety in the body feels like, and use tried and tested language to express this reality to another. Spoken in away that is graceful and caring so that you can be received in your requests.

My goal is to make myself redundant. So you feel equipped with the tools to tend to yourself and your trauma with softness and ease.

I used to feel powerless
until I learnt to listen to my nervous system

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